Friday, March 15, 2019

Learning - as an art...!

All of us have been learners since childhood. We have either been learning things with the help of someone or by ourselves. We, thus, have all the requisite skills to learn efficiently, by birth. So, the word "learning" by itself should not make us afraid or nervous. We have been learning tremendously from a very young age though we may not have been able to understand and interpret everything around us, as kids.
 

Irrespective of whether we are interested or not, we are joined in a school by our parents. At such a young age, our interest doesn't really count. Schooling is supposed to be a mandatory aspect of our academic life. But, it is important to ensure that the ultimate aim of learning is achieved. As we attend our classes regularly at school we unknowingly start learning many things. In fact, an entire day spent at school with many other fellow students itself is an experience and there cannot be a better teacher, whose lessons can be retained for life, than our own experiences.
 

These days, the focus of learning is getting shifted towards the necessity for scoring good marks which we feel may facilitate in enrolling ourselves for good courses at reputed institutions. Students therefore, have started looking for shortcuts to score marks. If thought peacefully for a while, we will realize that if we learn everything in the right way, we will not have to worry about our marks. We should focus on learning and marks will definitely follow.
 

The right way to learn anything we want to, is to firstly develop interest in it. If we don't develop that interest in ourselves, there is no use of learning. Learning is a voluntary action. Even as a child we learn only because of the interest and curiosity that is within us. If we have the same interest and curiosity alive in us forever, then we can keep learning throughout our lives. Secondly, we must aware about the technicalities of learning. If it is something related to academics, then it may involve interactive, audio-visual mode of learning so that whatever we learn immediately gets registered in our mind and we may not have to read everything again. Lastly, our learning should also involve writing, as organizing our thought-process effectively is also essential.
 

Learning is therefore an art of which we are all masters by birth. But, the cache is to learn the right way. There may be many ways of learning effectively. It is our job to customize our way of learning as per our need and energy levels. The only prerequisite for learning is have a desire to learn and become knowledgeable in life.     

                             

Tuesday, March 12, 2019

Being optimistic...!

We come across various kinds of situations in our everyday life. Some may have a positive impact on us, giving us a lot of happiness and boosting our confidence levels. While, we also encounter situations which make us feel humiliated or embarrassed. But life must go on. We cannot have a rewind and replay button in life. With the passing time, we must come out of the situation we are in and should move on in life.
 
We feel very happy and pleased with ourselves when someone recognizes our achievements and applauds us for it but we usually feel low when someone mocks at us for not being able to achieve something that we wanted to. This is a human tendency but if we start observing other living creatures around us, for instance, a dog, it too will react in a similar manner. When you are friendly with it, it will wag its tail and may also start licking and playing with you. But, if you try to harm it or scare it away, it may try to attack you.
 
So, if feeling low and demotivated at times and getting angry on ourselves for not being able to fulfill our dreams, is quite normal, then, how do we deal with it in order to make ourselves something extraordinary and unique in life? The best answer to this would be to become an optimist, which surely is not easy but it's not impossible either.
 
The first step in this process would be to not expect anything from anyone or from life in general because our expectation will also be the cause for our pain. Stop expecting people to praise you or even to be friendly with you. Always bear in mind that you are a normal human being who has come to live on this planet with a purpose and shall leave once the purpose or mission is accomplished. So focus on achieving your goal in life and don't get disturbed by the actions of others.
 
The next step would be to find happiness in the things you already possess. You may have a supportive family. You may have several good qualities which many people may not possess or even think of possessing. So, always look for and be happy with all the positive aspects that life has offered to you. This will bring you more closer towards being an optimist.
 
The final step, according to me, would be to look positively at failures as well. Everything that happens to us is for our good. The negatives or challenges that we face are only to help us in accomplishing the mission of our life. We really do not know what life has in store for us. So, the best decision would be to accept life as it comes.
 
Being an optimist, would therefore allow our minds to be peaceful, helping us remain happy throughout our lives.